Behavior . . . or Food?
By Brenda Nixon
Ever wonder why kids act the way they do? Often it's theirt
emperament, sometimes it's our parenting style, and occasionally
it's the food they eat.
Got a tot who seems fidgety? It may be too
much red food coloring or sugar in his system. Traces of these
additives are everywhere, even in margarine and toothpaste!
Manufacturers put a red coloring into margarine to change
it from drab white to eye appealing yellow. Sweeteners are
put in most toothpastes. Read ingredients listed on the package
and try to decrease these non-nutritives from food sources.
Then increase your little one's B vitamins and see if his
Bed-wetting accidents make you and your child fretful?
That yummychocolate cake and sips of soft drinks may be the
culprits. Caffeine, found in chocolate and many beverages,
can trigger urinary incontinence. Combine this with a youngster's
immature bladder -- about half of the 3-year-old population
wet the bed and 12% of 6-year-olds still do -- and you have
additional problems. During the early years when little muscles
are still gaining control, ease off giving your child caffeine.
Constipation causing calamities? It may be
a power struggle as many hygiene issues are between parent
and child. But it may be the type food your child is consuming.
Restrict high-fat foods like French fries and pre-packaged
lunches. It's not a convenience item if it creates bathroom
battles. Instead load up your lad with high-fiber fruits and
veggies. Many parents tell me their child hates fruit or is
picky about which he will eat. Find creative ways to camouflage
nutrition and loosen the bowels.
Are nighttimes a nightmare? If you're worn
out with a child whoconstantly wakes in the night, discuss
it with your pediatrician. Frequent insomnia could be a medical
issue. Your pediatrician can rule out annoyances that cause
nighttime waking such as pinworms or breathing problems. Studies
suggest that the stress of allergies cause frequent wakings.
If your child gets a clean bill of health, then consider your
response to nighttime wakings. Are you inviting it by giving
your child attention? On the nutrition side, offer more protein
and calcium near the bed hour. Protein and calcium may produce
relaxation or reduce allergy-related wakings. Try a slice
of cheese or cup of yogurt as a healthy snack. Then you and
your wee one enjoy some much-needed zees.
Does your kid say she brushed her teeth but you smell
a lie? Ratherthan argue, know that chronic bad breath
may be a throat infection or poor dental health. First, talk
with your pediatrician about these two reasons. If there's
no cause, then consider a food fermenting in the intestines.
In youngsters, food that isn't being digested correctly may
ferment and the odor escapes out the mouth. To keep halitosis
out of your house, start a dietary diary to identify the "problem"
chow. If you can isolate and eliminate it you may end the
bad breath. Also increase vitamin-rich B, C, and E foods,
which may help the body detoxify. It's vital that we watch
our children's behavior and detect if what they've eaten is
eating us. Regulating the foods in your home and lifestyle
could help avoid some problems in behavior. Then you and your
child will enjoy a more understanding and better relationship.
Copyright 2000, Brenda Nixon. www.parentpwr.com
*some information for this article was adapted from Dr. Lendon
Smith's book, Food for Healthy Kids.
Brenda Nixon is a speaker, writer, and coach on parenting.
Her book Parenting Power in the Early
Years is a top resource on many issues
in living/working with young children. To contact Brenda
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